The holidays are here, and all you hear is, ‘Mum, Dad, I’m bored.’
It is very easy to fall into the trap of feeling as though you need to try to think of solutions or become ‘the entertainment’ for your children when you inadvertently hear the dreaded phrase, ‘I’m bored’ or worse, experience what they actually start getting up to when boredom sets in, the fights, the mess, the frustration. Following are some ideas to help you with your bored children that are designed to stop you getting sucked into coming up with endless ideas, or spending buckets of cash keeping them entertained.
2. In the mornings or at the beginning of each week, brainstorm activities together that they can do when they are bored. Get them to write a list or draw pictures illustrating the ideas. When they come to you to say they are bored, get them to check the list and choose something from there.
4. Give them choices, such as, ‘You can continue to be bored or find something to do.’
5. Say that you would be very happy to show them how to vacuum, clean the car, wipe the ledges etc. Maybe they will want to, or maybe they will get as far away as possible and find something much more attractive to do.
6. Be realistic, nobody is suggesting that children should be left to their own devices the entire holidays, have a routine, one that balances:
* Time for household jobs
Author: Meg Parkinson